D is amazing, almost surreal. He is 35 and will be 36 on Thursday. He is in good shape and loves life. He use to be a soccer player, a ballroom dance instructor, and he still surfs! He is educated, smart, funny, and very sexy! He is a single dad of a ten year old daughter that he has had full custody of since his divorce 9 years ago. He has a great job and a truck. I swear I couldn't have dreamed him up any better..cheesy huh!
I know already....I am being the cheesiest person ever about this man and the great thing is he is doing the same thing at the same time!
I always said "no one feels the same way you feel about them at the same time" ,well if I was right, please do NOT wake me or pinch me!
Usually at this point in a new relationship if the man brought up the relationship talk I would be running, not walking, but in a full blown run in the opposite direction. So why am I not running from this man? We have had a few conversations about us being exclusive and it doesn't frighten me at all.....I'm serious I am a commitment phobia person!
There is something that is so right about this man! I have not seen not one flag! Usually by now I've found 20 or so things I'm not sure about, that I have to ponder over, or just plain can't get over either way I am usually one foot,or both feet out the door by now!
So this week, face to face we are having the relationship/commitment conversation and I'm smiling about it! What the hell is wrong with me!
I was perfectly happy being single, I love the single life! So why can I not see myself without this man now! I think that little bastard cupid snuck up behind us while we were too busy staring at each other and shot us with those damn tiny arrows of his!
I am happy for you.
ReplyDeleteI can't remember that smitten feeling feels like. I think the last time I felt that was when Texas beat USC for the national championship in football.
I think it's great! It is fun to be excited to be with someone. Getting to know them.
ReplyDeleteBeing alone is great too. I remember loving being single. I know eons ago- but I remember. But sharing your time with another is good too, it's just different.
Oilfield-I too had that same feeling when BAMA won the sec and then the national championship last year, but all together a totally diferent feeling from this, I'm positive! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteRuth- So true I couldn't possible be smiling any bigger or more cheesier about this man! Even my co-workers are commenting about my cheesiness!
It doesn't matter why...just go with it. It looks good on you!
ReplyDelete:) Thank you Cinderita!
ReplyDeleteI'm jealous...us commitmentphobes are dropping like flies...pretty soon I'll be the only one at the meetings! P.S. despite losing a memeber of the club, I'm happy for ya
ReplyDeleteThank you! Yes it was the furthest thing from my mind, i have prove read my prev posts lol...Thanks for stopping by
ReplyDeleteYour posts since you have met D have made me smile and say "awww". I'm happy for you. If you feel this good about it just go with it. I know questioning it is in your dna...but just go with it this time. :-)
ReplyDeleteWooohooo! sounds absolutely great! just go with the flow and enjoy it!
ReplyDeleteJewels-Thank you! I still can't stop smiling, we are doing great and are on the same page wow...It feels awesome!
ReplyDeleteUninspired-Thank you and we are going with it, it all feels so right and real...and we haven't even had sex yet! lol